Old stereotypes made us believe that making love is naturally easy, happens by itself and doesn’t involve too much thinking or talking. We assume that both partners are just supposed to know what to do when it comes to the moment, and then by some magic everybody becomes satisfied. Seriously? Is that what you experience in the bedroom? I wish it was that easy, but the truth is – it is not!
Today as I read an article about a female director of porn (not a typical profession for a woman I have to admit), it reminded me of the topic I wanted to uncover for a long time.
I believe you have at least once thought of yourself as a model, even if deep inside! Perhaps, you’ve dreamed of the red carpet and Oscar ceremonies, or of being a princess and living in a castle, or have imagined yourself on top of the world, admired by everybody, having no man to pass by you without turning his head, or every woman throwing a jealous glance at you! You wanted to behave like nobody was watching and give yourself fully to the world! This is a secret fantasy kingdom of yours, not available to the outsider’s eyes!
So, what’s holding you back?